Honestly, my
background has given me a lot of opportunities to excel in life. I was not born
with a silver spoon neither was I raised in abject poverty, I had the privilege to mingle with the well to do as well as the less privileged of the
society. Fortunately, one of my greatest strength lies in the fact that,
whenever I set my mind to achieve something, I always give it my best shot even
when the result isn’t favorable. My MIND has been my best companion when all
odds seems not in my favour and even when the chips are flat down, my mind
always keeps me going and reassuring me of better deals ahead. I have come to
realize in life that with positive mindset, the ants could also move the
mountain.
great start to achieving. When you use your mind, you set out to gain qualities
that guide you in the right direction.
mind to improve your life, consider the following tips:
commitments. Commitments are a part of life. When you have commitments, you
enter into promises that you will get something done. Start making commitments
to you. I commit to change habits that hinder me from achieving my goals, or
improving my personal life.
your skills to see how you can use them to better your life. While you are evaluating
your skills, look for new skills. Reach deep inside you, accept the
discomforts, fears, or things you do not like, look past them and find new
skills.
Do you have
your priorities straight? Do you have all your plans in perspective? Re-evaluate
your plans to make sure that you are on the right path to improve your
personal
life. If you notice areas you can improve, don’t be afraid to take action.
Taking action is the last steps you will take in anything you do that helps to
improve your life.
view failure? Failure upside down is achievement. Failure is common and happens
to all us daily. Failure helps us to learn how to develop and grow into a
better person. If you sit around stressing failure, then you are heading
nowhere quick. Failure is a part of life. You have failure around you, in you,
and in your future. Learn from your failures, accept your blame and move to
make things better for you.
People hear
the word no and fear it. No is not a rejection; rather no is a positive action
you take to spare your future. When you say no, I am not going to the bar, you
are saying I have better things to do than waste my time in a building filled
with drunks. Sometimes you have to tell someone you love no. For instance, you
may have to tell your mate no when he or she asks you to watch television when
you know you have to prepare a waiting report or business proposal. Don’t let
your mate hold you back. It is ok to say no.
follow rules. Rules are a part of life, which sometimes the rules are hard to
digest. You have to learn to open up your passageway and digest them anyway
unless you are willing to stand up and protest in a positive way. People
complaining about rules they don’t like and not taking action is wasting
everyone’s time. You have the power, yet it takes you to use that power.
filled with trials. Every day we walk out our door we are on a trial ride. Each
day we have good trials and bad trials. How do you handle trials? If you are
willing to take risks in life, likely you handle trials well. On the other
hand, if you fear changes, then you will need to find a way to deal with the
trials in life. Unfortunately, too many people deal with these trials by
drinking excessively or drugging. Don’t be one of these people.
You have
many options in life. Good options and bad options will come your very way each
day. Sometimes you will choose bad options, yet when you make mistakes, don’t
dwell rather pull up your resources to see how you could have done things
different, and do it different the next time.
